Letters to My Children – August 2019

Dear Ariya,

August is an exciting month.  You start the first grade this month!  You found out who your teacher was, and was so excited to meet her. We found out that you know a few friends from last year, including Ethan from music class and little gym (back when you two were babies), and Addy from pre-school.  The first two weeks weren’t too bad, pretty basic stuff, just a refresher on what everyone knows.  Your teacher knows that you are an avid reader, so she gave you a chapter book to read, a book from the series the Magic Treehouse.  We’ve started reading the 2nd Harry Potter book, a Chamber of Secrets.

You’re still doing gymnastics and Bollywood dance.  and next month, you start ballet!  I think you’re pretty relieved not to do soccer this season.  And I can tell how much you love gymnastics, you’re doing handstands and cartwheels all over the place!  I think the one downer is that your friend Claire will be ending gymnastics, so you won’t get to see her at class anymore.  We’ll just have to try harder to make a playdate happen.

Dear Asha,

You finished up camp at preschool the first week of August.  And you’ve been restless ever since.  You miss Ariya when she’s at school.  You can’t wait for your school to start.  Don’t worry, September will be here before you know it.  In the meantime, we did have orientation and you got to meet your teachers and see your new classroom.  That was pretty exciting.

You also started the Little Gym!  You have been BEGGING for the little gym classes since last spring, and now that you’re finally there, you can’t contain yourself.  This has been probably one of your most favorite things to do.  I’m so happy that you get to do something for yourself, instead of getting dragged to all of Ariya’s activities.

You also started Bollywood dance with Ariya.  You’re young, and it’s tough to hold your attention for a full hour.  But you did great at your first class!  Keep on dancing!

Asha, you try my patience like no other.  I love you so much, but wow, you are so stubborn, hard headed, and you just don’t listen.  What am I going to do with you?  I have to keep reminding myself that these qualities will serve you well when you’re older, but right now, I wish you’d just listen to me and do what I say when I say it.  Why does everything have to be a battle of the wills?  Please tell me this is the longest phase of our lives and it will get better?

Dear Anika,

What can I say, Anika, you are just the sweetest little doll baby.  Your smile fill me with such happiness.  You still won’t sleep on your back, and still want to be held all the time.  I’m actually wearing you right now in one of my wraps.  Even your daddy has started using the wrap, when we discovered that you’re not a fan of the ergo carrier.  You sleep so soundly when you’re worn in a wrap.  You do sleep for long stretches at a time when you’re in our arms.  And sometimes, if we’re lucky, you’ll stay asleep if you’re swaddled and in a swing. But it would be great if we could start putting you in your crib….  We keep trying.  You keep growing.  We all love you so much.

Here are some pictures from Grandma’s visit, and Nani and Nanu last month along with this month’s photos:

Letters to My Children – July 2018

 

Dear Ariya,

The countdown is on….for beach week!  It’s our annual beach trip with the cousins!  Your Grandma, Auntie Anjuanette, Uncle Kashiff, Uncle Eric, Mekhai and Jayden were with us for most of the week and it was glorious.  It rained…alot.  But there were pockets of time when the sun was shining, and we would race to the beach.  We did spend the day at the aquarium.

The waves were fun.  You tried boogie boarding for the first time and you loved it.  You were so sad that we didn’t have our own boogie board.  I think next year, we know what we’ll need to bring to the beach.

Mekhai introduced us to youtube kids, and you were hooked.  What is up with the obsession of watching OTHER kids play with their toys?  It just boggles my mind.  But you loved it.  Watching the tablet, watching youtube kids, was an addiction.  When we came back home, we had to wean you off of it, because wow, did it put you in a cranky mood.  20 minutes of tablet time was never enough.  You wanted more more more.

 

Dear Asha,

We spent a lot of time at the pool.  You watched Ariya and followed her lead.  You started taking a deep breath, putting your head under water, kicking.  I had to sign you up for swim lessons, because you were getting it.  You wanted to jump off the diving board after Ariya (with your noodle, of course).

The beach was great.  you loved playing with the sand….a  little too much, if you ask me.  You would eat it.  I don’t know what the big deal was with sand, but you wanted to eat it.  Drove Daddy and me crazy, but you loved eating sand.  You were a huge fan of the water and the waves.  Spending time with Grandma, your auntie, uncles and cousins were great too.  You got to stay up late, and sleep in.  There was a bunk bed and you always wanted to sleep up top.  But Daddy and I thought you were maybe a bit too young to sleep up top by yourself.  You were not happy about that, but you did love sleeping with Mommy in the king size bed.  Poor Daddy had to sleep with Ariya because she didn’t want to sleep by herself.  Maybe next year, you two will be able to sleep in the same room together.

 

Next month will be the last bit of summer before kindergarten starts for Ariya and pre-school starts for Asha.  Let’s soak it all in.