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Letters to My Children – March 2022

March was a pretty cool month. I started the month off traveling to Arizona for a photography workshop. You all got to spend some quality time with Daddy, so that was good! When I came back, I made sure to give you all my love and attention.

Ariya, you started Girls on the Run. And girl, you are a runner! I’m so proud of you, and you seem to really love it, which is awesome. We made sure Daddy would be your running partner. I haven’t run since the summer time, so I would not make a very good running partner at all. But I’m sure it will be great, because at the end of training, you’ll be able to run a 5k in May! Very exciting. But what I love about this group is the empowerment, positive affirmations and hopefully quality friendships that you make in this group. It’s so important as girls and women to uplift each other and want each other to do well.

We celebrated Holi, which was pretty cool! It’s not the same as past years. I’m not sure what’s happening with Namaste Shenandoah, but I remember that we had the colors from past years, and I called up Priya auntie to see if her family wanted to do something for Holi. And so she called a few families over and we went over there to celebrate Holi! We lit the bonfire, we talked about the meaning of Holi and we said the prayers. I don’t remember every lighting the bonfire, I think we just did the colors growing up. But it’s always great to understand why we celebrate Holi and why we light the bonfire and do the prayers. This is definitely something I’m thankful for.

And so the following week, I came to Ariya and Asha’s classes to talk about Holi. That was pretty fun and interesting. I couldn’t make it to Anika’s class because Asha came down with this crazy cold/cough that made her throw up every time she coughed too much. So funny how we were in this bubble for 2 years and now all of a sudden, we’re going to birthday parties and we’re no longer masking in schools and germs are being shared and everyone is getting sick again. And the first thing we think of is “I hope it’s not COVID!” Thankfully, it was not covid, just a cold/cough that would not go away.

Let’s hope April brings really good spring weather! It’s Ariya’s birthday next month, she’s having a party at the roller skating rink. Then there’s spring break, Easter, Apple Blossom…Lots of fun things to look forward to.

Letters to My Children – January and February 2022

Hey girls. I can’t decide if I want to continue these letters. I love writing them, it’s like a journal of our lives and what activities we’ve done, places we’ve traveled, etc. I wonder if you enjoy reading (or will enjoy) reading them as much as I enjoy writing them. I haven’t kept up with it as much as I’d like. I’ve started a new project, a daily photo project, where I try to take photos every day to document our lives. It’s tough, because sometimes I take way too many photos and some days, I might forget to take one. But here’s where we are.

Let’s see, January, we had a few snow storms. So that was pretty cool. It felt like for the whole month, we had a hard time getting back into a regular schedule, because either you had snow days, or 1-2 hour delays. It was tough after the holiday vacation but you all persevered. We headed down to Richmond for a long weekend in January, but had to cut that weekend short because of a snow storm coming. I’m kind of glad we kept it short. The drive down was terrible. Anika is not a fan of staying in the car seat for too long. As soon as we hit the mountains and on 64, she lost it. She wanted to get out. She tried to get out of her seat belt. I had to pull over a few times just to make sure she didn’t get out of her car seat. Man, was I glad to reach Richmond.

Other than that, January was pretty normal. Ariya and Asha, you still had tae kwon do and ballet. You attended Balvihar when you could through zoom. And we went to church when Daddy was off on Sunday.

February, the half days started for teacher planning. Anika was so happy to have Ariya and Asha around for those half days. We went to the children’s museum one of those half days and, wow, we haven’t been there since before the pandemic. So it was really nice to visit on an off day where it wasn’t crowded and it felt like we had the place pretty much all to ourselves.

Ariya and Asha, you finally received your orange belt in Tae Kwon Do! You’ve done such a great job at practicing and you’ve really worked hard to get to that next level. We are so proud of you!

Ariya, you’re my little reader. I can always find you in a book, reading and re-reading your favorites. You remind me so much of me when I was your age.

Asha, you’re my little dreamer. You’re always telling me silly stories and spinning around in circles and making me laugh. You love to read and play and make believe.

Anika, wow you are growing so much! You love wearing your tutu pajamas and your tutu dresses. Some days you love wearing your tutu pajamas during the day as well. You’re having a great time at school and learning so much. You love playing with your friends, your “sister” Simisola, coloring and painting. And you love your teachers so much.

Letters to My Children – December 2021

Dear Ariya,

We had a lot of plans for December. Lots of family time. Niraj mama, Hyeon mami, Eila and Kailas flew all the way over from Singapore to spend time with us in Virginia. We celebrated Asha’s birthday in Richmond. We went on this really cool adventure course, full of zip lining and swinging logs and nets. It looked super fun. I was busy taking pictures and video. And then the following weekend, we stayed at the National Harbor. So many Christmas events happening there. There was snow tubing indoors. A christmas village, complete with gingerbread cookie decorations. And mostly just running around with your cousins. It was a fun time.

And then winter vacation happened. Grandma, Auntie Carmen, Phelix, Uncle Eric and Blue came to visit. We found out that your cousin Jayden had covid before he was planning to come up, so Mekai, Auntie Anjuanette and Uncle Kashiff had to stay home too 😦 But we still had fun.

There were a lot of presents to open. A lot. I think you were a very happy kid on Christmas morning.

New Year’s Eve was also friend. We had our close friends, the Stephens’ come to stay up with us. We had dinner, you all played and then we watched on tv when the ball dropped. We set off noise makers and sparklers and champagne. Well, you had sparkling cider and you loved it in those champagne flutes.

I just know 2022 will be a better year for all of us.

Dear Asha,

Wow, you turned 6! When did you become such a big girl?!?! I still look at your baby pictures and wonder where my cutie patootie went? Don’t get me wrong, you are still a cutie patootie, just bigger, sillier and more independent. The day before your birthday, I brought cupcakes into your classroom, so your friends could celebrate your birthday with you. I even brought treat bags for everyone, which I think everyone loved. We went to Richmond to celebrate with nani and Nanu, and your cousins from Singapore were there! We had donuts for breakfast. Grandma, Auntie Anjuanette, Uncle Kashiff, Jayden and Mekai met us at the adventure course after lunch. And wow, was it fun. You loved every second of it. Even when you were scared of the finale zip line. I was so proud of you, you were so brave!! Afterwards, we went back to Nani and Nanu’s for pizza and cake! you loved your LOL cake, and all of your presents. And afterwards, we went for a holiday drive to see the Christmas lights. I’d say it was a pretty fun birthday.

The next weekend, we went to the National Harbor to spend more time with your cousins Eila and Kailas. Wow, you hung on to Eila way more than I thought you would, she was like the big sister you always wanted, haha. Just kidding, I know you love having Ariya around, but you were excited to have another big sister to cling to. Poor Kailas was feeling left out with the gaggle of girls around him, but we tried to include him in everything. You had so much fun with the indoor snow tubing and just running around with everyone. And the Ferris Wheel was a major highlight. That was pretty cool.

After that was winter break. We decorated Christmas cookies, spread reindeer food in the front yard for the reindeers. We left out those cookies for Santa. You had fun with Phelix and Blue but were super bummed that Mekai couldn’t make it. We were all sad. And it was strange to have spring weather on Christmas day. You were outside in a t-shirt playing! We all played on the tire swing, you chased each other and jumped off the bridge.

And then we celebrated New Year’s Eve with our friends. You were so excited to have Aaliyah here. Lots of playing, chasing, celebrating. I can’t wait to see what the next year brings you.

Dear Anika,

You were so excited to be at Nani and Nanu’s house! So much excitement with Eila and Kailas. We had to leave you at home with Nani and nanu while Asha did the adventure course, but you did great! Nani and Nanu were happy to spend quality time with you, and you stayed in your jammies all day.

You loved the hotel stay at the National Harbor. You ran after your sisters in the hotel hallways, and downstairs where the Christmas tree was. You loved the ferris wheel and feeding the ducks at the harbor. There were lots of good times, especially with the light show.

You were sad for winter break. You missed your school so much. But it was way better when Ariya and Asha were off of school. Lots of playing, lots of being lazy. It was great.

You weren’t able to stay up for midnight, but that’s ok, you did get plenty of play time in before going to bed. Let’s hope 2022 is even bigger and better and brighter for you!

Letters to My Children – November 2021

Dear Ariya,

It’s November! Diwali and then Thanksgiving to look forward to! I came to your classroom to do a diya craft and handed out Indian sweets from the grocery story. Most kids like them, but there were a few that didn’t. It didn’t hurt my feelings. Your classmates are so sweet, really good kids. I read “Amma, tell me about Diwali” and I think everyone was really fascinated by evil Ravana and the 10 heads.

We’ve had some warm weather, got together with friends outside at the MSV trails. It’s been a pretty warm fall. I’m worried that we won’t have a snowy winter with how the weather has been acting. But I’m thankful that we have decent weather to play outside for as long as we can.

Thanksgiving was a funny holiday. You were bummed that we weren’t going to see Grandma. Daddy had to work, and I don’t know how to make turkey, so I basically invited us over to a friend’s house. Unfortunately, their kids’ babysitter had Covid, so we didn’t want to risk it. So we ended up going to another friend’s house, and it was great. You played with Aidan and Declan, and their cousins. There was kick the can, hiking in the woods, chasing each other, playing with their puppy Penny. You didn’t want to leave, but it was Anika’s bed time and we had to go.

We started thinking of ideas for holiday gifts. I had this idea to make a chunky blanket for all of our extended family, and you wanted to learn how to help me. So we started this project of making Grandma a chunky blanket. You helped a lot, and I really appreciate it! But you didn’t have it in you to continue, and I was inspired to make blankets for your aunties and uncles, and for Nani and Nanu. I think it was a fun project, I really liked making chunky blankets. When the holidays are all over, I’ll make you, Asha, Anika and Daddy one as well.

Dear Asha,

We had Balvihar in person a few times, so I actually taught your class (which was really just Maya and you). You have such a love/hate relationship with Maya. I think it’s because you two have very similar personalities. You get along great, but you are both so stubborn too. It’s so interesting seeing you two interact. We did yoga, read about Diwali (we read Amma, tell me about Diwali, you girls are used to reading about evil Ravana and his 10 heads), and did a diya craft that was practice for when I come to your classroom!

I came to your classroom as well, to read a Diwali book called “Maya and Neel’s Indian Adventure, Let’s Celebrate 5 days of Diwali”. Your classmates are so sweet and funny, I had a great time reading to you all, and I think we all had fun doing the diva craft. It was tougher for you and your classmates to fold the fan but you all did a great job!

You’re still enjoying ballet and tae kwon do which is great. And we are gearing up for the holidays, which is so exciting! you loved having a long weekend. Lots of chill time and playing.

Dear Anika,

What can I say, you are talking more and more. Your vocabulary is growing, and your personality is really shining through. You are so sweet and cuddly independent and stubborn. You never want to be left behind, and always say “I miss my Asha, I miss my Ariya” when they are at school. You are so sad when you find out it’s not your day to go to school. But when you do go to school, you insist on wearing a “tutu”. Even if it’s your pajamas. I’m just happy if I get some clothes on you. You love the tv show Bluey and the movie Moana. I am just loving the stage that you’re in no, even if I do miss the baby you once were.

Letters to My Children – October 2021

Dear Ariya,

It’s been a pretty cool month. You worked so hard at Tae Kwon Do and finally got your yellow belt! You had to take a test and everything. Ballet has been great as always. We went to Richmond for our friend’s quincinera, and while we were there, we went to the Richmond zoo. So much fun! And you are just like me, you had your install camera, ready to take pictures every chance you got! We also went to a vegetarian festival, which was more for me than for you. Nanu came with us. I wanted to try all the cool vegetarian food, but with you girls around, with no patience to stand in line, we just had one dish, had some snow cones and listened to music. It was something nice to do. We also went to this cool event at Maymont Park, called Garden Glow. We went at night, and they had lights set up everywhere. There was a hay bale maze with lights everywhere. A screen where the lights gave off your shadow. And we walked down to the Japanese Garden. It was BEAUTIFUL. So many beautiful lights. The roll of film that I took did not do it justice at all. Glad I took some video too 🙂

I ended up going to a photography retreat, so you got to spend some quality time with Daddy and your sisters. And luckily, the house was still standing when I came back home.

We did go to a Van Gogh exhibit in Dc for the day and that was so cool! It was a way to see all of Vincent Van Gogh’s work, learn a little bit about his life, and see some things that weren’t as mainstream. And there was a really cool immersion display, this visual of his art that kept changing. You sat and took it all in, but after a while it got to be too much.

At school, we had a trunk or treat event, which you girls loved. We went to our friend Sachiv’s house for his birthday on Halloween, and that was fun, he had a bounce house, chocolate galore, lots of treats. You were Mal the descendent’s. We went trick or treating with our friends the Patels, like we do every year. It was a pretty good time as always.

Dear Asha,

You are still excited about ballet, which is wonderful. Those Thursdays can be rough because ballet is right after school, and after a long day, it’s tough to get enough energy to be excited about ballet. But once you are in the class, you have a great time. Ms Abby is so awesome, we are so lucky to have her as your ballet teacher!

You also earned your yellow belt in Tae Kwon Do, which is amazing. I was worried for a moment that you were not going to stick with it, but you did!

Diwali is coming up, so I taught your class at balvihar. It was just you and Maya but still, it was fun. We did a craft, made a diva, read some stories about Diwali, the festival of lights. I also came into your class room, dressed in my Indian outfit, and read a different story about Diwali. We also did the same craft. I think your classmates liked it. It was fun, and really nice to visit with everyone.

You had fun at the vegetarian festival but you couldn’t understand why we couldn’t go in the play house and play with the other kids. Growing up in a pandemic is tough. You are doing this new thing where you take my camera or this old digital camera that we gave you and take lots of selfies and videos. I think you got that from me 🙂 You had a blast at the zoo. The animals were so fun to look at. You really wanted to feed the giraffe. We spent just enough time to take everything in. And the Garden Glow was great, but you had no care for the crowds, you just ran and ran everywhere. Same with the Vincent Van Gogh exhibit. You and Anika had a ball running around. It was good to get out and see something cool.

Trunk or treat was great, you were Uma from the Descendent’s. You were all about the deserts at Saachiv’s party, and that bounce house was where it was at! Trick or treating was fun, you got SO MUCH CANDY. What I’ve discovered is that you girls are not a fan of snickers, kit kats or reese’s peanut butter cups….but i am…..

Dear Anika,

You are loving school so much. You pretend to cry when I pick you up because you want to stay at school. You get sad when we drop the big girls off at school on the days when you don’t go to school, because if you had it your way, you would go to school every day. It’s kind of crazy how much you love it. But I am so thankful.

No activities for you just yet. When you turn 3, I’m sure all the activities will start. Especially ballet 🙂 You love wearing Ariya and Asha’s old ballet slippers and wearing these old leotards that our friends gave us when Ariya was getting into ballet. They were a little too big for you, but you love playing dress up.

You were Anna from Frozen for Halloween. You loved hanging out with your big sisters for Trunk or Treat at their school, and at Halloween. You wanted to follow Asha into the bounce house at Sachiv’s birthday party, but man, it was bad, those kids were bouncing all around you and it was too much. Maybe next year we can have a bounce house for you.

Letter’s to My Children – September 2021

Dear Ariya,

You are getting into the groove of things with school and your activities. You’re still a white belt at Tai Kwon Do and you go twice a week. You love it so much.

Ballet has started and that’s another activity that you’ve missed so much. You are so motivated to stay in ballet, to work towards pointe shoes. I hope you make your goal. I think it might be a few more years before you make pointe, but I love that you love ballet so much and that you’re sticking with it.

School has been great. You are thriving in 3rd grade. You love your teacher, you love to learn. You’re so smart. And I love that the school’s policy is to not have any homework, just focus on reading. Which you already do, so much reading. You always stay up to read, and I can’t complain about that.

You did catch a fever and that sucked. You couldn’t make it to the book fair, and you had to take a COVID test, but luckily it was negative. What strange times these are, when you get a fever and I immediately panic that it’s covid.

We did head down to Richmond to wish Auntie Anjuanette a happy birthday. You loved seeing Mekhai, Grandma, Uncle Eric, Uncle kashiff and Jayden as well. We just went down for the day, had lunch with them, and hung out at their house before it was time to head back home.

Dear Asha,

You are LOVING Kindergarten. The stories you’re telling me of all the friends you’ve made. It cracks me up. So much drama at such a young age. It’s pretty amazing. There was a moment where I picked you up crying and it broke my heart. But luckily you have an amazing teacher and it was all sorted out.

You’re still white belt at Tai Kwon Do and you are happy doing it. But sometimes I think you’re tired, adjusting to the new schedule of being at school all day. And when you’re in Tai Kwon Do, you sometimes just want to sit when everyone else is standing, and the teacher yells at you to stand up (the teacher is a great guy, but very good at motivating you).

Your days at ballet are LONG. You have class, then we have a break for dinner, and then Ariya has class. Longest day ever of the week. When Daddy is at home to help out, we do a switcheroo, so you don’t have to stay at ballet that long. But yeah, it’s tough.

We did go to the book fair that you had at the school. Lucky girl, getting a few books that you put on your wish list. It was great, you had a craft in your teachers room, saw some friends, played and shopped.

We also had a back to school picnic that the PTO helped set up. You had so much fun playing with your friends on the playground. Ariya was bummed that she didn’t get to see her friends, since they split the grade levels and times. But because of Anika’s bedtime, it was better that we came earlier. She still had fun with the siblings of your friends, and it all worked out.

Dear Anika,

You started school this month! Oh my gosh, it was terrifying. You cried and cried and cried every time I tried to drop you off. I had to walk you in to school every day, and try to sneak out when you were distracted. The first few week was rough. But before you knew it, you were LOVING school. After we dropped off the big girls, you would be so excited to go to school. I don’t know why I worried, I knew you would love it! On the days that you don’t go to school, sometimes we go to the park and spend some one on one time together. It’s really nice, you get to swing and explore all by yourself.

We had our friends over for one last time to play in the pool before we closed it up. Oh man, you girls enjoyed that time so much. So sad, saying goodbye to summer. We loved having the pool this summer. After we closed it up, you would ask for the pool. Sorry sweet girl. Swimming outside is done for now.

We took a 3 mile hike to a waterfall with Daddy and wow, you really impressed me. You were all about exploring, keeping up with your big sisters and wanting to hang. There were moments where you had to be picked up. It was pretty special just hanging out by the water. We’ll have to do the hike again in the spring. It was a beautiful trail!

You went to the dentist for the first time, and that was interesting. Your tongue kept trying to get in the way, but thankfully, there was nothing traumatizing to report. You did such a great job in that chair!

We also went apple picking! We went with some church friends, and you got to hang with your favorite guy, Felix. Ariya made a new friend, and so did I. And of course Asha got to hang out with her good friend Clara, so that’s always fun. It was a great day for picking apples.