Letters to My Children – October 2019

Dear Ariya,

You actually received a letter from your guidance counselor at school that you are invited to join the SCA.  You are now your class’s representative for the SCA and you get to do fun stuff around the school.  You meet once a month with other students from other classrooms and decide on important things.  For October, you got to take some time out of the day to go with the SCA to the farmer’s market to pick out pumpkins for the school.  I had a parent/teacher conference with your teacher, and she just loves you.  You excel at everything that you do.  You’re reading chapter books, you read so much ALL THE TIME.  At the bus stop, on the bus, at home, in the car, everywhere.  I love it.  I used to read like that all the time too.  I’m so happy you get lost in books like I used to.  Your daddy loves to read too.  He was the one that got us started on Harry Potter.

Let’s see, what else happened this October?  Nani and Nanu came to visit, and we went to Garba.  Daddy was off too, so we all got to go as a family.  Since you made so many friends from the Bollywood dance class, you had a blast.  You danced in the circle for garbage, you picked up those dandiya sticks and Priya auntie and I taught you and your friends how to do garba.  You ran around with Veer and Jai and Asha.  It reminded me so much of my childhood.  I remember running around with my friends at grab.  And following my mom in the garba circle, not really knowing how to do anything but still trying.  It made me so happy that you love our Indian culture so much.  You ask to listen to bollywood music, you practice your dances at home.  I wish I had that growing up, but I’m so glad that you have it for yourself.

We also took some time to go to our usual Pumpkin patch, Hill High Farms.  Right near our house, we go on a wagon ride to the pumpkin field.  A cowboy rides up to us and gives us a history lesson on the land, crops, and animals.  There’s a hay maze.  There’s also a cornfield maze, haunted house and escape room, but I think you girls aren’t ready for that yet.  Maybe the cornfield maze next year.

Let’s see, what else…  Not much…EXCEPT HALLOWEEN!  You didn’t want to go to the store and get a costume.  You wanted to make your own.  So we found this pretty dress on amazon, dressed it up with a flower crown and some wings and voila, you were a fairy.  And you loved your costume so much.  We had the Monster Mash at school.  We played games, won some candy, decorated some cupcakes.  Daddy came for a little bit before he had to go to work, but I think you were really happy to have him, Asha, Anika and myself there.

We spent our annual tradition of trick or treating with our good friends Priya auntie and Meetul uncle, and Jen and Stephen and their kids.  Azusa auntie and Uncle Ellford met us as well.  It was great…until it poured down rain.  We were drenched as we ran back home.  But we got a lot of candy, had dinner, and watched a movie.  What a great way to end the night.

Dear Asha,

It was a pretty good month.  You had fun running around at the Garba with your friends, but then you crashed pretty hard.  Good thing Nani and Nanu were there, because you were sleeping on Nani’s lap pretty much the rest of the evening.

You’ve been obsessed with this show called Haunted House on Netflix.  It’s actually a pretty creepy anime show.  After doing some googling, it’s from South Korea.  But man there are some scary concepts that you seem to think are hilarious.  You roped Ariya into watching them as well.  Well, with that in mind, when you wanted to pick out your Halloween costume, I thought you wanted to be a unicorn, or a fairy like your sister.  Nope.  You wanted to be a …….GHOUL (according to you, a ghoul is a type of ghost).  You loved seeing spooky.

We had your first field trip this year at Marker Miller.  We got to ride a wagon again and take a tour of the farm.  There was a story about Johnny appleseed, we got to pick apples and see goats.  And the best part was playing on the playground and eating your apple donut.

You came along to the Monster Mash and couldn’t get enough of it.  You could have stayed all night.  I think you can’t wait to go to Kindergarten.  Only a few more years, sweet girl.

You’re so different from Ariya.  you’re rough and tough, you love to scare, and be scared.  But you can be so girly too, with your dresses, and doing ballet and bollywood dance. You are definitely one of a kind.

Dear Anika,

You’re 3 months old.  And you’re moving, A LOT.  You’re learning to roll on your side.  Which is kind of good, and not so good.  Not so good because you’re done with the swaddle, which really helped calm your moro reflexes.  But great that you’re growing.  Now you just need to learn to move on your side and calm yourself.  I still wear you, but you’re also starting to sleep longer in your car seat, when we’re running errands, or taking the girls to and from stuff.  You are the sweetest little thing, like a doll baby. The girls can’t get enough of you.  At the garba, everyone wanted to hold you and cuddle.  I get it.  I want to hold you and cuddle you all the time too.  Slow down, please, don’t grow up too fast.

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