Letters to My Children – September 2019

Dear Ariya,

September was a good month.  First, we started off with your uncle’s wedding.  Rikin Uncle and Eesha auntie are getting married!  We had to take Friday off, because you know how Indian weddings are.  We went to Pennsylvania for Pithi and Mehndi night. It was great to catch up with everyone, and you had so much fun playing with your big sister, Mala ben.

Saturday, we drove up to Connecticut for the garba.  Niraj mama and Hyeon mami came ALL the way from Singapore with your favorite cousins, Eila and Kailas.  It was so good to have someone to play with your own age.  You loved wearing the same dress with Asha, and we got to dress up too!  We saw all of the cousins perform a dance, how cool was that!

Sunday was the wedding and it was at a botanical garden in New York.  Wow, was it a beautiful wedding.  You had so much fun playing with Eila outside, enjoying nature, making up games, becoming forest children.  You didn’t want to say leave at the end of the night, to say goodbye.  But all good things must come to an end.

We’re still getting into the swing of things with school and your activities.  Since Claire is no longer doing gymnastics, we decided to move gymastics to another day.  We still find ways to see your friend Claire though.  There was an event at Blandy, called Nature Nutures.  It was so cool, there was a woman dressed up as Mother Nature.  You and Asha made a fairy house, and you worked with Claire to do a scavenger hunt.  There was even some stone soup and mud pies to be made, held by the local Tinkergarten group.  So that was a fun afternoon for both you and Asha.

You still have Bollywood dance, which you LOVE.  It’s time to get ready for your performance for Diwali in November, and you and Asha practice all the time.  And then ballet, which I don’t think you’ll ever give up because you love your teacher so much.

School is great.  You love school, you love your teacher.  You talk about your friends at school all the time.  Especially this boy named Luke.  I don’t know who Luke is, but your say his name a lot.  There was the Back to School picnic, which was fun seeing you in your element, playing on the playground.  And then there was Back to school night, where your daddy and I got to meet your teacher and understand what your day really is like.  We like your teacher too, and glad you are in great hands.

We still manage to make time for our other friends that don’t go to your school or activities.  You still go to Balvihar and see Priya auntie and Veer and Jai.  And we have dinner at their house every so often, which is always nice.  We made time to go peach/rasberry/blackberry picking wth Daddy at Marker Miller.  But we all get busy as the school year gears up.

Dear Asha,

School has officially started for you, after Labor Day weekend.  You are so happy with your teachers and your friends in class.  Your best friend Clara from last year is in your class again.  You’re learning so much, and always have fun crafts and reading to do.

The wedding was a success.  You only had school for a day before we went out of town.  Man, were you TIRED.  the whole weekend, you were just done.  You had a great time with your cousins.  Shiven bhai especially, I think he’s your favorite cousin.  But by the time the reception rolled around, you were laid out on the chairs asleep.  Oh man, it was tough getting you girls out of there, because you all were just dead weight.  I’d say it was a great weekend for us all.

On the days that you’re not in school, on top of the Little Gym and Bollywood Dance, we signed you up for ballet.  Finally, FINALLY, you get to have your own activities.  You have the same teacher as Ariya for ballet.  And your friend from school, Emme, is in your class.  It’s the sweetest thing seeing you two play and dance together.

You love love LOVE Bollywood Dance.  It’s kind of amazing, how you practice dancing along with Ariya.  We sing the songs in the car, and you even practice your dance moves in the car.  You’ve got that rhythm, you always find the beat.  Speaking of rhythm and beat, you have a new favorite album, a soundtrack for the movie Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse.  To see you sing “What’s Up Danger” cracks me up.  And I think your absolute favorite song is “Sunflower”. You could sing this song, and this album, over and over and over again.  I think Ariya is sick of hearing it.  I don’t mind though, I like it.

We are still working on your stubbornness.  Girl, you just won’t listen.  And you want to love up and hold Anika all the time.  You might actually love her a little too much.  But that’s ok, it could be worse, you could actually hate her, and that would not be good.  But no problem there.

Dear Anika,

You are 2 months old.  And you are the sweetest thing ever.  You fuss when you’re tired, you wake up crying because you’re hungry.  But once you’ve nursed, you break out in the biggest smile.  I still wear you a lot.  It’s hard trying to get into a routine with you.  You’re basically on the go whenever we drop Asha off at school, or if we take the girls to their activities.  But you do roll with it, and I’m so thankful for that.

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