July is finally here! In addition to some really cool camps that you got to do (Needle Arts Camp at the Discovery Museum, Intro to Dance with SCAA, and The Little Nature Camp), we’re having a baby! You are so excited to meet your baby sister, Anika. You’ve already told me about all the things you’ll do to help me take care of you. You’re going to be such a great big sister.
The camps were amazing. I knew the Needle Arts Camp would be one of your favorites. Your aunt, Priti Masi, bought you a sewing kit a long time ago for Christmas. And I bought you a sewing machine for your birthday. But I think you’ve always been frustrated by the limitations of the plastic needles. So this camp was perfect. You learned how to thread a needle, make puppets, and now you have instructions how to make other things. You were so excited every day when I picked you up. And Asha was happy your camp was at the discovery museum, because I would take her there to play while we waited for you.
The Intro to Dance camp was great as well. It was with your favorite teacher, Ms Abby. The camp taught you ballet, jazz and tap. You’ve never learned jazz or tap before, so this was a great introduction. Of course the camp was during baby Anika’s big day! I didn’t get to see your big performance, but your daddy went and recorded it. You were amazing! I think, if it was up to you, you’d sign up for jazz and tap for the year. But since I told you that you could only do 2 things starting out, you’re sticking to ballet and gymnastics for the school year.
The Nature Camp was amazing! I think this was the one camp that you can’t wait to do every year. You learned a lot about nature. You played in a mud pit and threw mud at each other, you canoed in the stream, caught bugs in the meadow. So much outdoor fun. Your best friend Asher told you about this camp, and thank goodness he did, or else we never would learned about this camp.
Anika came on July 10th, unexpectedly. And I think you thought that I’d go to the doctor’s office for a check up and come back with the baby. You didn’t realize, and I think we did a poor job of explaining it to you, that I would stay at the hospital for a few days with the baby to make sure everything was ok. You were pretty emotional and didn’t understand why I couldn’t come home with you. It was tough explaining it to you and Asha. And one day, you’d be calm and cool, and Asha would be an emotional mess. And the next day, you would be emotional and Asha was the cool calm one. So weird. But once we came home from the hospital, it took an adjustment. Luckily, Nani and Nanu were here, as well as Daddy to help with the transition. And you became so in love with your baby sister.
There was so much excitement in our household. You didn’t understand why I was washing the baby’s clothes, or getting her room ready. You didn’t know why we were cleaning all of the baby’s toys, but you were ready to help.
On the day of Anika’s birth, your daddy was post call and did not get a lot of sleep. And we needed some help taking care of you, and taking Ariya to camp. Our friend Niki was so sweet to take you to the pool to play with Asher and Marni while dropping Ariya off at dance camp. We had to wait until Nani and Nanu came up from Richmond. You know something was happening, but I don’t think you really understood that baby Anika was coming. But you were so ready to give her the toy that you picked out, a baby Shark stuffed animal that sang Baby Shark. I think you picked it more for yourself than for your sister, but surprisingly, all 3 of you love that stuffed animal!
You couldn’t wait to hold Anika at the hospital. You and Ariya both loved on Anika, and tried to gently give her hugs. You were both smitten with her. But you had a really hard time not being the baby anymore. The transition was tough for you. Anytime your daddy or I held the baby, you’d want attention. In a way, you regressed. You stopped using your words when you wanted something. You wanted hugs all the time. And you couldn’t understand why we were always holding the baby, and why we couldn’t cuddle or play with you like we used to.
We tried to organize fun things for you and Ariya to do, while Nani and Nanu were here. You saw the Lion King when it came out, and Nani came with you and Ariya. Nanu and Daddy took you and Ariya to the pool. You went to the kid zone a few times with Ariya, while Daddy, Nani and Nanu worked out at the gym.
Luckily, Grandma came to visit with your cousins Mekai and Phelix. It was chaos, and you loved it. You ran with the boys and Ariya, you got to play with Grandma at the pool. And Grandma got to bond with baby Anika too.
Well well well. You arrived a few days early, quite unexpectedly. The plan was for you to arrive on Friday, July 12th. The plan was for Nani and Nanu to come on Wednesday or Thursday, just go get used to the girls’ schedule before I went to the hospital. But something told me that things would not go according to plan. I had a stress test scheduled for Wednesday July 10th. And on Tuesday night, I thought to myself, maybe I should ask Nani and Nanu to come earlier, JUST IN CASE. Your daddy was working Tuesday night, and of course didn’t get any sleep, so Wednesday, he was delirious. Which, of course. He was post call for Ariya’s birth and for Asha’s birth. It’s like you girls are giving Daddy a taste of what it would be like, sleep deprived nights worrying over you girls.
So, during Wednesday’s appointment, the sonogram showed that apparently I had been leaking amniotic fluid, because there wasn’t much left. Which mean I had to go to the hospital as soon as possible. I was in a panic. Nani and Nanu had to drop everything and drive in from Richmond. We had to line up childcare for Ariya and Asha. Luckily we have awesome friends, and our friend Niki was able to take Asha to the pool and Ariya to dance camp and gymnastics. Daddy and I went to the hospital around 11am. Of course I didn’t have a big breakfast, because I had been managing my gestation diabetes and trying to be healthy with a half english muffin with peanut butter and 1 egg. Well, I couldn’t eat anything for the rest of the day. We were hooked up to the fetal monitor and everything looked great. And my favorite doctor, Dr. Leonoard, who delivered Ariya and Asha, also delivered you!
C-sections and the recovery was tough, but to finally hold you in my arms made everything worth it. You were born at 5:42pm, and weighed 8lbs 5 oz and were 20.5 inches long. I thought you’d be this huge baby, because Ariya and Asha were both about 6lbs. But you were still so tiny. So much hair, just like Ariya and Asha. And from the start, you were lifting your head and looking around.
We were so happy to finally take you home. But that 4th trimester is a real deal. All you wanted to do is be held by Mommy and Daddy. Poor Nani and Nanu, they would try to hold you, but you would cry and cry and cry. And your cry is a wail. It’s a shriek. It’s loud and insistent and surprising to come out of such a small little body. I think it took 2 weeks for you to finally get comfortable and let others hold you.
I think I panicked the first time Daddy had to go back to work and Nani and Nanu left for Richmond. They stayed for 2 weeks, and they miss you and Ariya and Asha, but they were ready to get back home, to their routine. And we had to make our routine. I think I’m getting the hang of it. Baby wearing is key. You love to be held, it’s the only way you’ll sleep.
We did learn that you had a tongue tie, so we had to get that lasered off. But after that, breastfeeding has been a breeze. You are growing and thriving. We are all so in love with you, your smile, your baby coos, everything about you.